Anything Wrong With A Lady Asking A Guy Out?
First of all, let me
apologize in advance to you guys just incase you discover any error in the
course of reading this piece. I mistakenly
broke my laptop just a few days ago and so I had to write and post this
piece
using a phone device and editing with a phone is such a big deal so
please just
manage what you see till i get my laptop fixed. Lol.
As I was seated beside this
lady at the airport waiting to board my flight, her phone rang. .. She
picked
it up and was on the phone for about 30 mins
gisting with a close friend of her`s I guess. Although I was a
little
bit distracted by their conversation since I
was busy reading a book, but I didn't mind because somehow I got
interested in her telephone conversation.
Anyway, she was complaining
to her friend about this guy in her life who wouldn't make the move by
asking
her out. "He's
caring to a fault and pampers me like no other" she said "but
I'm confused because he hasn't made it official yet and I don't want to
mistake
his attention for affection... He just wouldn't make his intentions
known"
By this time, I was no longer
interested in the book I was reading, neither was I bothered about arik
and
their normal delay of flights as I was already getting entertained by
this
lady's telephone conversation. Although
my eyes were fixed on the pages of the book I was reading, but my ears
were
attuned to her telephone conversation with her friend. And yes! I know
it`s not
my business, but then, I couldn't have pretended not to be listening. At
least
ears are meant for hearing sounds right?. Lol.
So she continued "I'm
tempted to ask him out" she said "but I feel he's going
to see me as
someone cheap if do... I'm just confused"
hmmm...
As she spoke with her friend,
my mind flashed back to my very first relationship where my girlfriend
back
then happened to be the one who made the first move. Yes! She did. I
guess she
had waited on me for so long to make the move by asking her out, but
because I
lacked the courage to and perhaps was immature at the time, I just
couldn't. I
mean, how could I have looked at her in the face with my then-big nose
and say“I love you.” hell no! I would rather have preferred to die
in
silence than voice out my affection for her. I was that scared! But the
story
is different today! If I love a lady, I go after her as a sharp warri
guy.
Close friends of mine know a lady I chased for almost 3 years without an
iota
of success. Lmao. Can you imagine!! But that I won't try again oh! I'm
not
Jacob who waited for Rachel for 14 years.
That's old gist. LOL! I'm Huntly
Anabs. I may sound shallow, but it think 6 months is
enough to pursue any lady and if
she doesn't give in, She's on a longgg
thing.
Anyways, I guess one of the
challenges ladies are faced with today is that their "male
friend(s)"
find it difficult defining the relationship and so, they get confused
because
these "Mr nice guys"
wouldn't want to act "nice" by making the relationship graduate from
“friends” to
“In-a-relationship” or better still, “fiancee.” And because some of
these
ladies don’t have the patience to wait for the guy to make the move,
they
either make the move by asking him out or they place him in the “family
zone”
not “friend zone” and “wave” at some other guy who perhaps they feel may
give
in. lol.
So as a lady, can you ask a
guy out if he's too slow to see you "waving”
along side with that “inviting smile?” Do you think it's weird or not
just
proper? And as a guy, what if a lady asks you out? Will you give in or
will the
male ego get in the way? In general,
what do you guys think about a lady asking a guy out?
Let's hear what you have to
say. Please share your opinion in the comment box below.
Gracias
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